It seems like just about everyone I know is going through a difficult time in their life right now. I can only describe mine as being stuck in the middle from my past and my future....the aspect of keeping certain things close to me or letting go...letting go of the people that I do not need my life or will need later on....Do you choose routine or venture into the change and reflection of unknown? I have realized you cannot change people..they will love you, accept you, hurt you, and ultimately teach you. If you do not like how someone treated you in the past, reflect and do not do that to others. Be the change you wish to see in other people. Rid yourself from the things not necessary to benefit. If you have a tough time with yourself, reflect and give your times to others to be productive, also surround yourself with positive influences like the people who care for your well being, surround yourself with your passions, morals etc.
Change is difficult to interpret or control, but the best possible attitude is to know that it is necessary for growth. If you are stuck to routine...evoke this change.
My changes that I am trying to make:
1) ridding myself of things/people I do not need or are negative
2) in their place developing healthy and positive attributes
3) altering my sleep/eating/exercising/thinking patterns
4) being the change I seek